Use _NET_WM_FRAME_DRAWN to synchronize frame drawing

Use _NET_WM_FRAME_DRAWN to synchronize frame drawing

As part of the extended _NET_WM_SYNC_REQUEST_COUNTER protocol,
we get a _NET_WM_FRAME_DRAWN message for each frame we draw. Use this
to synchronize the updates we are doing with the compositing manager's
drawing, and ultimately with with display refresh.

We now set the sync request counters on all windows, including
override-redirect windows, since it is also useful to do synchronized,
atomic updates for such windows.

https://bugzilla.gnome.org/show_bug.cgi?id=685460